Now before you jump to conclusions, this is decidedly NOT an intro to how to be cool. You won’t find any glorious tidbits on how to be casual and loose. Believe me when I say I wish you would. But it’s just not gonna happen. I figure it’s time to start letting out some of… Continue reading Which man is an alpha male?
First off, let me say I’ve always hated Valentine’s Day. I haven’t just hated it when I was single – though I am now, and that always brings and extra edge of bitterness to the whole affair – but I hated it when I was married too. Because the whole holiday just raises unrealistic expectations.… Continue reading What to get for valentine’s
OK, so I was bored. Decided to check out other fun items for the holiday wish list. sexy, Martha Stewart style – okay, this isn’t the Martha Stewart site, though you wouldn’t be able to tell by looking around. Apparently a few naughty bits (Kama Sutra items, mostly) have gone mainstream enough to include in… Continue reading Spice up your sex life with these things
Okay, so it’s not exactly frightful (yet) but the holiday season is nearly upon us. Time to start thinking about what naughty little boys and girls want in their stockings this Christmas. Thought I’d get started on my yuletide wish list early this year. An exercise in futility, you might say, since I’m single for… Continue reading 10 great items for sexy holidays
After a catastrophic crash of my home computer that left me in disconnected limbo for nearly a week, I’m back in the saddle (okay, okay, desk chair) again. Nothing too in-depth to discuss today, but I did want to share a few random thoughts and finds: 1. porn spam: Does anyone read this stuff? Honestly, how successful… Continue reading My first spanking… and some more
Just when I’m getting frustrated by my ability to find interesting sexuality resources online, Jane’s Guide saves me. I haven’t been to this site in more than a year – maybe closer to two – but I’m glad I decided to stop by again. Really, resources to the web are so much more useful when teamed with… Continue reading 3 great resources for sex education
Wired reports about a story in a scholarly astronomy journal. The somewhat dry and scholarly title: “The Psychological and Social Effects of Isolation on Earth and in Space”. What all the mumbo jumbo means: it’s about the history of getting it on in space! Damn, I knew there was more to those quiet scientist types than met… Continue reading How to have sex in outer space
Oh, just really, really excellent. Ran across an article from one of the owners (Heather) of ScarletLetters (one in a growing number of female-positive, female-friendly erotic sites) about what women want from their porn and erotica – the thrust of the article is mainly online but mentions offline wants and needs a little as well. You can read it here.… Continue reading Porn for girls
For all the times I get dismayed by a lack of good material on the web, once in a while I run across a real gem that makes me remember why I love the web. Even more amazing, this site is a pay site and yet one without dyed blonde hair, silicone tits or closeups of cumshots!… Continue reading Great sources for vintage erotica
There are days when I think I hop over to Salon just for my daily dose of oddity. They’ve got some really good articles – and after all, it’s pretty hard to put out an online-magazine-worthy article on sex every single day. These guys manage, but it means some of their stories are pretty bizarre.… Continue reading Phases in women’s sex lives
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