Kinky · Sex positivity · Vicky

5 great resources for women love the D like I do

t all began with The Book of the Penis (written by Maggie Paley). While doing some online shopping, I ran across this book, which Dan Savage (Savage Love) said “should be required reading for anyone who has a penis, wants a penis, or loves someone who has or wants a penis”. Well, I certainly fit… Continue reading 5 great resources for women love the D like I do

Sex positivity · Stories (Vicky) · Vicky

Which sex and the city character am I ?

Dating – more than one man, even – does not guarantee you won’t end up spending Saturday night alone on the couch. It’s okay, though, since I didn’t really actively pursue setting anything up for tonight. I poured myself a glass of wine, turned all the Christmas lights on, and cracked open my birthday gift… Continue reading Which sex and the city character am I ?

Kinky life · Men and Sex · Sex positivity · Vicky

Should sex be a taboo?

With the holiday season approaching – “more rapid than eagles”, as it were – you might find yourself hunting for holiday-related fun on the web. Libida.com fits the bill (don’t they always?) with a few seasonal-themed feature articles this month. Did I mention how much I love this site? Well, okay, I did. But I’m going to say… Continue reading Should sex be a taboo?

Better Sex life · Kinky life · Sex positivity · Vicky

The perfect slutty outfit

One of my all-time favourite scenes from Laurell Hamilton’s Anita Blake: Vampire Hunter series is in The Killing Dance when Anita and the gang must get dressed in full fetish wear to meet the head of the local werewolf pack (they never explain why, really, in the series, but every big meeting seems to require outrageous dress).… Continue reading The perfect slutty outfit

Better Sex life · Sex positivity · Vicky

What to get for valentine’s

First off, let me say I’ve always hated Valentine’s Day. I haven’t just hated it when I was single – though I am now, and that always brings and extra edge of bitterness to the whole affair – but I hated it when I was married too. Because the whole holiday just raises unrealistic expectations.… Continue reading What to get for valentine’s

Sex positivity · Sex tips · Vicky

Spice up your sex life with these things

OK, so I was bored. Decided to check out other fun items for the holiday wish list. sexy, Martha Stewart style  – okay, this isn’t the Martha Stewart site, though you wouldn’t be able to tell by looking around. Apparently a few naughty bits (Kama Sutra items, mostly) have gone mainstream enough to include in… Continue reading Spice up your sex life with these things