First off, let me say I’ve always hated Valentine’s Day. I haven’t just hated it when I was single – though I am now, and that always brings and extra edge of bitterness to the whole affair – but I hated it when I was married too. Because the whole holiday just raises unrealistic expectations.… Continue reading What to get for valentine’s
Okay, so it’s not exactly frightful (yet) but the holiday season is nearly upon us. Time to start thinking about what naughty little boys and girls want in their stockings this Christmas. Thought I’d get started on my yuletide wish list early this year. An exercise in futility, you might say, since I’m single for… Continue reading 10 great items for sexy holidays
After a catastrophic crash of my home computer that left me in disconnected limbo for nearly a week, I’m back in the saddle (okay, okay, desk chair) again. Nothing too in-depth to discuss today, but I did want to share a few random thoughts and finds: 1. porn spam: Does anyone read this stuff? Honestly, how successful… Continue reading My first spanking… and some more
Just when I’m getting frustrated by my ability to find interesting sexuality resources online, Jane’s Guide saves me. I haven’t been to this site in more than a year – maybe closer to two – but I’m glad I decided to stop by again. Really, resources to the web are so much more useful when teamed with… Continue reading 3 great resources for sex education
Wired reports about a story in a scholarly astronomy journal. The somewhat dry and scholarly title: “The Psychological and Social Effects of Isolation on Earth and in Space”. What all the mumbo jumbo means: it’s about the history of getting it on in space! Damn, I knew there was more to those quiet scientist types than met… Continue reading How to have sex in outer space
Oh, just really, really excellent. Ran across an article from one of the owners (Heather) of ScarletLetters (one in a growing number of female-positive, female-friendly erotic sites) about what women want from their porn and erotica – the thrust of the article is mainly online but mentions offline wants and needs a little as well. You can read it here.… Continue reading Porn for girls
<rant> This is so sad. I was shocked and dismayed and… well, here, let me give you the scoop. According to The Position: The most recent sexual survey, Sex in America (1994), by M. Gagnon et al., found that about 40 percent of women in the general population between the ages of 18 to 59 had… Continue reading How often do women masturbate?
God, I hate games. Well, now, let me qualify that. I enjoy some games. Ones in which both people know exactly what’s going on. No manipulation, no hiding, no dishonesty. So long as those guidelines apply, I’m all for the fun of games. Which is precisely why this site, The Art of Seduction, rings a little false with… Continue reading Why do girls play games?
I attended my first-ever Fantasia party yesterday at Bast’s place, what fun! If you’ve never attended one of these before, I highly recommend it. The crowd was rowdy and bawdy (just how I like it), the oils and unguents held exciting possibilities, and the toys were of high quality. If I had one disappointment it was that… Continue reading Toys for us girls
Another amazing scientific discovery posted this – scientists have discovered the male G spot! According to reports, they found the part of the brain that gets excited the most when a man is sexually aroused by what he sees. Wow. Can I play devil’s advocate for a moment? Of course there’s a part of the brain that gets… Continue reading The male G-spot
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