Most of the people who know me in life assume that if I were to get “into” (their emphasis, not mine) BDSM that I would be a dominant. It’s a reasonable enough thesis – I tend to be fairly (ahem) assertive in my day-to-day life. I’ve been at least an equal if not the stronger… Continue reading Where are the submissive women?
I’ve got my nose deep in at least three of the books I picked up last week (no, silly, not all at once…). But one in particular tends to stay with me even when I’m not reading it, so I thought I’d share some of my thoughts so far. Consensual Sadomasochism by Bill Henkin has… Continue reading What is orgasm denial?
With the holiday season approaching – “more rapid than eagles”, as it were – you might find yourself hunting for holiday-related fun on the web. Libida.com fits the bill (don’t they always?) with a few seasonal-themed feature articles this month. Did I mention how much I love this site? Well, okay, I did. But I’m going to say… Continue reading Should sex be a taboo?
Ran across a hilarious list online today – Top 10 Bad Arguments for Anal Sex. They’re listed as things to never tell your lover if you’re trying to have anal sex with her. A few of these had me rolling in the aisles, but the #1 reason was super. Come to think of it, would that… Continue reading What women like in bed
Okay, so it’s not exactly frightful (yet) but the holiday season is nearly upon us. Time to start thinking about what naughty little boys and girls want in their stockings this Christmas. Thought I’d get started on my yuletide wish list early this year. An exercise in futility, you might say, since I’m single for… Continue reading 10 great items for sexy holidays
Wired reports about a story in a scholarly astronomy journal. The somewhat dry and scholarly title: “The Psychological and Social Effects of Isolation on Earth and in Space”. What all the mumbo jumbo means: it’s about the history of getting it on in space! Damn, I knew there was more to those quiet scientist types than met… Continue reading How to have sex in outer space
Oh, just really, really excellent. Ran across an article from one of the owners (Heather) of ScarletLetters (one in a growing number of female-positive, female-friendly erotic sites) about what women want from their porn and erotica – the thrust of the article is mainly online but mentions offline wants and needs a little as well. You can read it here.… Continue reading Porn for girls
For all the times I get dismayed by a lack of good material on the web, once in a while I run across a real gem that makes me remember why I love the web. Even more amazing, this site is a pay site and yet one without dyed blonde hair, silicone tits or closeups of cumshots!… Continue reading Great sources for vintage erotica
There are days when I think I hop over to Salon just for my daily dose of oddity. They’ve got some really good articles – and after all, it’s pretty hard to put out an online-magazine-worthy article on sex every single day. These guys manage, but it means some of their stories are pretty bizarre.… Continue reading Phases in women’s sex lives
This weekend I checked out the Everything To Do With Sex Show with a Bast and some other friends. You gotta love the premise – kind of like a Home and Garden show but for those who love sex! And who doesn’t, really? 🙂 Interesting items: I was really surprised by the proliferation of Wet, a flavoured… Continue reading 3 items to spice up your sex life